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Female Performer Chat: What makes u come back?
i hate liars.. if someone ask you what you can do in pvt be honest and not answer them what you think they wanna hear. Alot of times, the model would promise you everything under the sun in free chat, and find out in pvt chat for example, 'ohh my mic not working today' , ' im having my period', 'my ass too tight for toy', and my worst experience is when model pretends to squirt. Usually result in me finishing off very quickly and never returning
on the positives.. a sweet smile always gets me, pleasantry in free, a hot pvt Quote
on the positives.. a sweet smile always gets me, pleasantry in free, a hot pvt Quote
i hate liars.. if someone ask you what you can do in pvt be honest and not answer them what you think they wanna hear. Alot of times, the model would promise you everything under the sun in free chat, and find out in pvt chat for example, 'ohh my mic not working today' , ' im having my period', 'my ass too tight for toy', and my worst experience is when model pretends to squirt. Usually result in me finishing off very quickly and never returning
on the positives.. a sweet smile always gets me, pleasantry in free, a hot pvt
Dude, for what it's worth I actually turned down a private Friday night because I'd suddenly gotten all depressed and didn't want to disappoint the guy. I mean, we're talking money here and since a viewer can't exactly ask for a refund if the show sucks, the likelihood of them coming back is pretty slim. Lying is just bad politics, no?
In the end, he thanked me for being honest and wrote my first review, which I thought was absolutely adorable. Next time I see that one, I'll be sure to thank him ;) Quote
on the positives.. a sweet smile always gets me, pleasantry in free, a hot pvt
Dude, for what it's worth I actually turned down a private Friday night because I'd suddenly gotten all depressed and didn't want to disappoint the guy. I mean, we're talking money here and since a viewer can't exactly ask for a refund if the show sucks, the likelihood of them coming back is pretty slim. Lying is just bad politics, no?
In the end, he thanked me for being honest and wrote my first review, which I thought was absolutely adorable. Next time I see that one, I'll be sure to thank him ;) Quote
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cheaptrick
1/7/09 @ 6:25pm
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Posts: 25
I come back cause the model is fun to chat with, and some of the other people in chat are quite interesting to talk to.
Also after getting to know the model, there is some true feelings for them, just like other friends I have.
Why I don't visit a model ,well like anybody else. I have preferences for certain things, and sometimes things just don't click.
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Also after getting to know the model, there is some true feelings for them, just like other friends I have.
Why I don't visit a model ,well like anybody else. I have preferences for certain things, and sometimes things just don't click.
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The girl. This is 100 percent social for me, so no amount of sex play is really going to hold my interest very long.. but (I hate to agree with Cosmo here..) a model with a vibrant smile and a sincere personality will capture my attention every time, I'll stay up all night and maybe (all right a few times I've done this) even fall asleep in her room, since I'm often on overnight. And no, it's not that she keeps a boring room. Just that it's comforting to talk to her, then work on another window on the computer while she's with a potential customer or in a show.
As I sayed before, if there were more guys like you world and F4F will be such a wonderful place
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As I sayed before, if there were more guys like you world and F4F will be such a wonderful place
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yea everything that SUGGS said is my opinion to when a girl knows how 2 have a good time, i mean being sexy is good but if u just want pvt i dont feel like my money is being spent right and dont feel good when a girl is playful and can turn me on just typing away is amzing and makes me wana come 2 pvt and visit her everytime she is on 
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One of the things you must remember is everyone is different. Some folks just come in for the "quickie" with the "hottie" that best meets their desires. For many others its about the "social" interaction both in and out of private.
I think a great many of us with agree that we love the "social" rooms, but I have also noticed that most of these rooms are with models that have a mic and speak english, possibly because I'm American audio always catches my attention. This of course puts the non-english speaking models at a disadvantage, at least with the "social" gathers. I've frequented a number of models, regularly simply because their rooms have a good vibe and for me they don't just show face or body, but have their cam more in a "portrait" viewing. A beautiful face and an even better smile will always attract a guy, especially this one. I'll always return to a room that has a good vibe, even if there isn't much socializing going on. There's a particular model I started to frequent who doesn't use her audio all the time, but she does respond to chats via text. She carries a good vibe no matter what with or without audio.
Bottomline to answer you main question, I think the social aspect will always attract a great many public regulars which of course will lead to many prvts. Quote
I think a great many of us with agree that we love the "social" rooms, but I have also noticed that most of these rooms are with models that have a mic and speak english, possibly because I'm American audio always catches my attention. This of course puts the non-english speaking models at a disadvantage, at least with the "social" gathers. I've frequented a number of models, regularly simply because their rooms have a good vibe and for me they don't just show face or body, but have their cam more in a "portrait" viewing. A beautiful face and an even better smile will always attract a guy, especially this one. I'll always return to a room that has a good vibe, even if there isn't much socializing going on. There's a particular model I started to frequent who doesn't use her audio all the time, but she does respond to chats via text. She carries a good vibe no matter what with or without audio.
Bottomline to answer you main question, I think the social aspect will always attract a great many public regulars which of course will lead to many prvts. Quote
I come back for ladies like Saphira 
(Woops is that a promotion?
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LMAO where should I send your payment?
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(Woops is that a promotion?
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Created by:
g-mann
6/10/09 @ 1:58pm
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Location: Teddy's BBQ Place in Hello Kitty Land on Route 66
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Can you say ESP?
There are such great personalities on here when you get to know most of these models. It makes a huge difference if you can have a great conversation with them as well as some fun. It is also a plus that the majority of members are very sociable. I enjoy chatting with other members while a model is in private. To have a group of members you know in a certain models room makes you want to go back, not just because she is amazing, but because you also have friends there. For me though, the "Main" reason I come back is my favorite model, a certain princess that anyone who reads the forums can figure out
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There are such great personalities on here when you get to know most of these models. It makes a huge difference if you can have a great conversation with them as well as some fun. It is also a plus that the majority of members are very sociable. I enjoy chatting with other members while a model is in private. To have a group of members you know in a certain models room makes you want to go back, not just because she is amazing, but because you also have friends there. For me though, the "Main" reason I come back is my favorite model, a certain princess that anyone who reads the forums can figure out
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to this site: the models, the forums, friends i've made
for a model: as long as she's cool i'll go back. for me to continue to visit and become a "regular" i have to feel some sort of connection to the model. it's like in real life.. you'll be attracted to different people for different reasons but as teddy just stated ES is what draws you in, but it's the P that keeps ya coming back! Quote
for a model: as long as she's cool i'll go back. for me to continue to visit and become a "regular" i have to feel some sort of connection to the model. it's like in real life.. you'll be attracted to different people for different reasons but as teddy just stated ES is what draws you in, but it's the P that keeps ya coming back! Quote
I see what you are getting at with the ESP drawing you back for more....but on the same token, there has been times that I have a room full of silent guys and I am basically chatting with myself trying to conversate "shoot the shit". If your going to sit in my room for 20 minutes at least say hi or join in the convo!
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. Also, I cringe when I see "bb" typed. Baby's an easy enough word to spell. and I'm sadly phonetic in my silent narratives, I pronounce bb as beebee everytime I read it in my head no matter how many times I read it.
Anyway, that's how my boat floats.
OMG!!!! hahahahaa that is tooo funny. i swore i was the only one. infact i tried hard for thne first month to try and figure out what bb stood for. like LoL.. laugh out loud... bb.... blonde bitch?.. hehehehe
since day one i have been learning the lingo? and i am Always feeling dumb blonde.. lost in the dark about add thinks like that. i understand "fone" thus some words get censored. i feel better now.
thanks hun
<3 BJ
back to reg topic. i find some days are dif from others. i am in no way very well at being the brightest crayon, and i sware i could have my own blooper real. and with my bluntness combined with it all, i feel i scare more men away than atract them...
but i love my social hour.
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Anyway, that's how my boat floats.
OMG!!!! hahahahaa that is tooo funny. i swore i was the only one. infact i tried hard for thne first month to try and figure out what bb stood for. like LoL.. laugh out loud... bb.... blonde bitch?.. hehehehe
since day one i have been learning the lingo? and i am Always feeling dumb blonde.. lost in the dark about add thinks like that. i understand "fone" thus some words get censored. i feel better now.
thanks hun
<3 BJ
back to reg topic. i find some days are dif from others. i am in no way very well at being the brightest crayon, and i sware i could have my own blooper real. and with my bluntness combined with it all, i feel i scare more men away than atract them...
but i love my social hour.
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Thats part of the reason I love being on here so much, I like just talking to people! We talk about everything from sports to pets to sex ;) It's not monotonous and its always nice to see the regulars!
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Created by:
rickster66
6/10/09 @ 10:40pm
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Location: Alabama
Posts: 64
For me, it's the same theme that has been repeated over and over in this thread. ESP
The girls that will let you feel comfortable coming in, hanging out with no expectations are the ones I come to see. I stop by damn near every day. No way in hell can I afford a pvt every time I want one, and they understand that.
There are some, (the original thread starter is a good example), that will make you feel welcome the second you walk in. Even knowing a pvt isn't coming on a given night, she'll make you feel like she wants you to stay and just hang.
Since one feels welcome and comfortable there, naturally, when the time to buy pvt comes, that's where it will be.
On the other hand:
If you want to keep me out, hit me up for pvt in the first 5 minutes there, or try to guilt me into pvt.
I won't mention the name, but I went into someone's room a few days ago to say hi. Sure I flirted a little bit, but it was harmless, didn't ask for anything. She says "why do you come and tease me all the time and leave?"
It so happens, she comes on quite often just as I have to leave to go to work. I told her I was just saying hi.
Her response to that was "what's the point if you're not going to do anything?"
I take that as, "don't come to my room if you're not going to take me pvt."
I can arrange that.
There are a few models I truly enjoy hanging with with. I don't beg "show me (insert body part here) they don't beg "take me pvt beebee", and when the pvts come they come, and they cum and I cum and we just have our own private cum fest.
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The girls that will let you feel comfortable coming in, hanging out with no expectations are the ones I come to see. I stop by damn near every day. No way in hell can I afford a pvt every time I want one, and they understand that.
There are some, (the original thread starter is a good example), that will make you feel welcome the second you walk in. Even knowing a pvt isn't coming on a given night, she'll make you feel like she wants you to stay and just hang.
Since one feels welcome and comfortable there, naturally, when the time to buy pvt comes, that's where it will be.
On the other hand:
If you want to keep me out, hit me up for pvt in the first 5 minutes there, or try to guilt me into pvt.
I won't mention the name, but I went into someone's room a few days ago to say hi. Sure I flirted a little bit, but it was harmless, didn't ask for anything. She says "why do you come and tease me all the time and leave?"
It so happens, she comes on quite often just as I have to leave to go to work. I told her I was just saying hi.
Her response to that was "what's the point if you're not going to do anything?"
I take that as, "don't come to my room if you're not going to take me pvt."
I can arrange that.
There are a few models I truly enjoy hanging with with. I don't beg "show me (insert body part here) they don't beg "take me pvt beebee", and when the pvts come they come, and they cum and I cum and we just have our own private cum fest.
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Except for my buddy Merc I think I'm one of who hangs out in here the longest, back then I used to think "damn I'm still here" and year after I kept saying I would quit which obviously didn't happen...After some time I realized i don't HAVE TO quit, here I had the chance to get to know wonderful people (including my long time fan Purgy - damn he's gonna kll me lol) and wonderful ladies. Of course you'll always find some bizzare figures like everywhere 
but thank god there will always be the video and the pretty faces to look at...
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but thank god there will always be the video and the pretty faces to look at...
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timmyb1369
6/11/09 @ 1:07am
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Location: West Coast US
Posts: 19
Speaking to the original question, here's something I've found that others haven't quite put this way:
When I'm in a room with a girl who doesn't really understand English, we've got a problem. I'm here to chat, and her conversation is limited to "hi bb hru," and "pvt?" When she is fully clothed, and entirely stationary, then she hasn't got much to encourage someone to take her pvt. She'd better be stunningly pretty, or I don't see a future here.
I would suggest girls who don't understand English look at a site like lang-8, and to practice their English in chat, and to practice speaking their English as soon as they can in audio. This is scary, I know, but it will work better than they might think. The reality is that poor English, spoken with an accent, can be quite sexy, and customers can quite enjoy helping with that when they're not complete jerks. Quote
When I'm in a room with a girl who doesn't really understand English, we've got a problem. I'm here to chat, and her conversation is limited to "hi bb hru," and "pvt?" When she is fully clothed, and entirely stationary, then she hasn't got much to encourage someone to take her pvt. She'd better be stunningly pretty, or I don't see a future here.
I would suggest girls who don't understand English look at a site like lang-8, and to practice their English in chat, and to practice speaking their English as soon as they can in audio. This is scary, I know, but it will work better than they might think. The reality is that poor English, spoken with an accent, can be quite sexy, and customers can quite enjoy helping with that when they're not complete jerks. Quote
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ozzieboy4u
6/11/09 @ 1:18am
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Location: Under Saphira's Bed with the wand
Posts: 3,075
What keeps me comeing back.
Thoughs gorges blue, that radient smile and long blond hair. the way you make me feel welcome every time i enter your room.
Thats what keeps me comeing back
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Thoughs gorges blue, that radient smile and long blond hair. the way you make me feel welcome every time i enter your room.
Thats what keeps me comeing back
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dudley_do_ride
6/11/09 @ 1:32am
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Location: hain't Pochipsie son
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For some of us it is something like being a comet moving at a very high speed through the universe. Enjoying the sense of speed and the freedom. How much space. How many bodies to orbit.
Every now and again, in interactions too complex to model, we are pulled in tight around some luminous or some light consuming object. Ohhhh it bends our orbit but never captures us. We may return but only every hundred years after a short, in terms of the age of the universe, period of wild close orbits.
Miss an encounter and the short period never comes. Chance plays an enormous role. So many factors in the equations...
Or so I'm told ; )
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Every now and again, in interactions too complex to model, we are pulled in tight around some luminous or some light consuming object. Ohhhh it bends our orbit but never captures us. We may return but only every hundred years after a short, in terms of the age of the universe, period of wild close orbits.
Miss an encounter and the short period never comes. Chance plays an enormous role. So many factors in the equations...
Or so I'm told ; )
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Created by:
lickau
6/11/09 @ 10:16am
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Location: Moving slowly but surely somewhere sometime
Posts: 29,285
Looks only keeps a mans interest so long 
Personality keeps me making REPEAT visits to many
Eyes that show warmth - Smiles that are real
Personality that makes them individual
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Personality keeps me making REPEAT visits to many
Eyes that show warmth - Smiles that are real
Personality that makes them individual
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